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How To Help Someone You Care About When They Refuse

March 18, 2024 Aging Wisdom Season 3 Episode 11
How To Help Someone You Care About When They Refuse
Wisdom Wednesday: Aging Wisdom's Podcast
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Wisdom Wednesday: Aging Wisdom's Podcast
How To Help Someone You Care About When They Refuse
Mar 18, 2024 Season 3 Episode 11
Aging Wisdom

Having concerns about an older loved one’s well-being is normal. Striking the right balance between fostering independence and ensuring safety can be a struggle for adult children and other care partners. Sometimes we offer help and it’s ignored, dismissed, or refused. Granted, this can be frustrating. However, with patience, persistence, and some new approaches, you can build a foundation for conversation, collaboration, and mutual understanding.

In this first of ten bite-sized podcasts, our colleague Wendy Nathan, Certified Care Manager, and Sandra Cook, Executive Consultant for GenCare Lifestyle,  share the common signs that someone may need help and how to help those in our care when they don't want help.

Changes and adjustments are normal for all of us during our lifespan, but sometimes they warrant a closer look. Striking the right balance between fostering independence, respecting autonomy, and ensuring safety can be a struggle for those of us who are part of an older adult’s life. You may find this article helpful too: Seven Signs an Older Loved One May Need Help

By the end of this series of podcasts, part of a larger virtual presentation given in February, you should have some great tools in your toolbox for managing resistance. 

In this series of conversations with Wendy and Sandra, they will: 

  • Discuss the value of independence in our society 
  • Help us understand why older people may resist care/help 
  • Offer techniques to help build and gain trust and cooperation 
  • Provide creative ways to support to those who are reluctant to accept our assistance

Not sure what to do next? Are changes in an older loved one a source of worry for you? We are experts in guiding families on options and next steps. You can CLICK HERE to schedule a free get-acquainted call with one of our care managers.

Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook and LinkedIn.

Show Notes

Having concerns about an older loved one’s well-being is normal. Striking the right balance between fostering independence and ensuring safety can be a struggle for adult children and other care partners. Sometimes we offer help and it’s ignored, dismissed, or refused. Granted, this can be frustrating. However, with patience, persistence, and some new approaches, you can build a foundation for conversation, collaboration, and mutual understanding.

In this first of ten bite-sized podcasts, our colleague Wendy Nathan, Certified Care Manager, and Sandra Cook, Executive Consultant for GenCare Lifestyle,  share the common signs that someone may need help and how to help those in our care when they don't want help.

Changes and adjustments are normal for all of us during our lifespan, but sometimes they warrant a closer look. Striking the right balance between fostering independence, respecting autonomy, and ensuring safety can be a struggle for those of us who are part of an older adult’s life. You may find this article helpful too: Seven Signs an Older Loved One May Need Help

By the end of this series of podcasts, part of a larger virtual presentation given in February, you should have some great tools in your toolbox for managing resistance. 

In this series of conversations with Wendy and Sandra, they will: 

  • Discuss the value of independence in our society 
  • Help us understand why older people may resist care/help 
  • Offer techniques to help build and gain trust and cooperation 
  • Provide creative ways to support to those who are reluctant to accept our assistance

Not sure what to do next? Are changes in an older loved one a source of worry for you? We are experts in guiding families on options and next steps. You can CLICK HERE to schedule a free get-acquainted call with one of our care managers.

Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook and LinkedIn.